To Sex or not to Sex?

Didi,
I am in a relationship for about 2 years now and I am still a virgin. My boyfriend wants to have sex and have complained to me that he has waited for so long. I really don't know what to do? If I don't do it, then I feel like he's going to dump me. Please help me!
Ms.Virgin

Ms. Virgin,
Do NOT let any guy, even if he is your boyfriend to pressure you into doing anything. Having sex is a very emotional and taxing decision and once you do it, you can't take it back. Ask yourself first, Are you ready? It seems to me that you have doubts and you feel that if you have sex with him, you will be able to keep him and the relationship going. That is solely a wrong reason to do the deed. Besides, what happens if you have sex with him and he ends up dumping you? There are many consequences to having sex when you aren't ready so I advise you to think about your thoughts and actions carefully. If he truly is the guy that you call a "boyfriend," he will respect your decision of not having sex until you're ready. Otherwise, he is not worth your time my dear.
Much <3,
DiDi